Marah anak depan org

Pernah tak uols marah anak depan org?i mean marah sampai budak tu menangis.

Dulu,i penah tgk satu mak ni marah anak dia sbb anak dia berebut barang dgn adik dia.Masa tu dalam LRT.I guess dia baru balik dr pasar malam kot sbb bawa banyak2 plastic.

Yang kesiannya sbb budak ni kene marah depan semua yg ada kat situ.mak dia very the garang.sampai siap ckp "kat umah nanti siap kau!".Sampai mcm tu skali.Dh nama budak kan.Actually budak tu takde la berebut teruk sgt.just tarik gitu2 je dr adik dia.tp mak dia over gila marah.sampai budak tu malu and nangis kat situ jugak.I plak yg rasa nak marah mak dia.Takde akal ke marah anak sampai mcm tu skali depan org.

I read from parenting forum, byk parents bagi pendapat kita tak patut jerit(shout)/slap/shaking anak depan org.Kalau btol pon anak buat salah,bole nak tegur masa tu jugak but dgn cara yg elok lah.

Kalau masa i kecik2 dulu,kalo i buat perangai selalunya my mum akan tenung lama2 mcm muka nak makan org.Itu adalah sign dia tgh marah.Takut giler kay..huhuhuhu..

BTW,I suka one of the parents punya opinion:

"Scolding children in public is not right. They too have feelings. When they do wrong, it is better to drag them to a quiet place and scold them to your heart contents. They will learn that they are in the wrong and will absorb all your words put forward to them on a one to one basis rather then in public. "

For me,kalau kita besarkan anak kita dgn penuh kasih sayang,InsyaAllah..dh besar nanti dia dgr ckp kita.Tapi kalau kita asyik nak marah2 & bawa sampai ke pukul memukul,tak mustahil dendam tu akan terbawa2 sampai dewasa.Mcm kebanyakan kes sekarang yg selamba tinggal mak ayah tepi jalan.

We can blame them(those ppl yg tinggal mak ayah tepi jalan) but there's must be a reason why.Mana tahu dulu2 ayah dia kaki pukul ke.Who knows.Tapi ye lah,walau mcmana teruk pon mak/ayah kita,diaorg lah yg melahirkan & membesarkan kita.So we need to appreciate them.

"There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness"

You know who you are..

I tulis ni bukan niat nak cari gaduh ke apa.But,i think i ada right nak ckp kat sini since this is my blog kan.If you guys tak suka apa yg i tulis ni,fine.

Ok lately i tgk ada perkembangan yg kurang sihat among bloggers.again,u know who u are.Sometimes,i dun understand what's going on.Apa yg cuba dipertahankan/diperdebatkan sekarang ni?tell me.

I ckp cuz i rasa xbes when this kinda thing happen.around me,around my circle of friends.

I hate negative vibes around me.I tak suka if ppl try to menghasut and so on.Cuz kadang2 bila kita memburukkan org,tanpa kita sedari kita sedang memburukkan diri kita sendiri.U got what i mean x?

Elok2 org tak tahu perangai sebenar kita,tiba2 org nampak pulak true colors.xbes la kan.Org pon takut nak dekat/meet you.

We supposed to chill je..xperlu nak mengata2 org tak tentu psal.Apetah lg kalau org tu xkacau pon life kita. I rasa xperlu kot nak gaduh2/lawan2 bende2 yg remeh temeh..mcm budak2.kita semua dh beranak satu pon.esok lusa ntah beranak dua,tiga plak.Buat malu je la.

Bukan apa,lg banyak kita memburukkan org,lagi banyak bende2 yg tak patut kantoi,jd terkantoi..

P/s: I believe that blog is one of medium u nak rapatkan silaturrahim,bertukar2 pendapat yg bagus2 etc etc.But when it comes to something yg tak bes,i pon rasa xbes..

Mega Gath Port Dickson: Awesomeeeee!

Heyyy guyssssss!!

Fuhhh!Penat gilerssss i tell u.Even tho it's 2days 1 night punya event pon tp kepenatan tetaplah ada kan.

But we enjoyyyycccccccccceeeee gilers!

Tq kakak sarah sbb organize all this.babe u mmg mavelessss ah!

Okay actually masa ke PD,i bawa our personal photographer...eccececee..takdela..i bawa adik ipar i skali.Dia pon seronok giler nak join kitorg sbb nak tangkap pics banyak2..i guess for his portfolio la kan..so he tag along with afif-the official photographer for the event.Tq alang & afif for the wonderfulllllll pixiesss!!!i luvvvv ittt!

Ok jom kita layan gambar kay..

I like this pix the most!!tgklah hot momma fatin paling excited! :D


The Daddies!

The babiess


Family amie menang besar malam tu!Congrats babe!


The craziesttt couple i've ever met!luv yahh!


Steph & Remy- Romantic gilaaaaa! :D


Ok,that's us!

Ok,if you guys wish nak tgk banyakkkk222222 pics lagi...sila pergi ke

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I memang sgttt "rajin" nak upload.muahahhaa.banyak giler weiii picsss!pening kepala nak memilih ;-) dlm cam adik ipar i je dh banyak giler.blom lg cam afifff..!xsempat nak tgk satu2!

Nice meeting u mommiessss!!!Bes dpt sembang2 dgn kawan2 baru like mommy ezan,mommy iliya,mommy amie,mommie fatin,mommy fad,kak bie...semua ni i first time jumpa.bes bes besss!!

Mommies..nanti bila anak kita dh besar skit buat lg kay.bak kata amie obersea plak!hahahaha.

U guys take care..Mwahhhhhhhhhhhhss!

p/s: i respek giler family kak bie & abg sham.Even tho they have 2 mnths old baby + 2todlers but they sporting gilerssssss!