I came across this quote yesterday (masa bc buku pregnancy).
"seseorg anak tidak akan mengetahui kasih sayang ibu bapanya terhadapnya,sehinggalah dia mempunyai anak sendiri.."
I totally agreed with the quote.Bukan kata selama ni tak sedar yg mak ayah kita syg kat kita,yes i do.but ade certain part yg kita xpernah terpk lgsg..
i give u an example- at least ape yg saya rasa sekarang.
1) Tak bole tido mlm,perut dh besar
uols semua pernah terfikir tak yg mak2 kita dulu rasa susah nak tido mlm masa mengandungkan kita?me tak pernah terfikir sbb my mum tak pernah pun cerita.but i did share with my MIL (since most of the time i spent my weekend with her). My mil ckp,mmg mcm tu,lagi2 dah dkt2 nak lahir...mmg tak bole tido..semua position tak kena..mengiring,telentang..masa my mil ckp,hasben pon ada..so we like.."ooo...mcm tu ekk..baru tau"
2) Morning sickness
even now dh takde morning sickness,tp dlm kepala ni masih dok tringat zaman morning sickness..it was like.."adoiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii....".but end-up with,"cmni la mak rasa dulu..".masa mula2 kena morning sickness,.nangis2 jugak call mak..rasa tak thn.masa tak pregnant,tak terfikir pon cmne morning sicknes.slalu dgr je kwn2 yg mengandung cerita.masa bgtau mak,my mum didnt even say "haaaa..mcm tu la mak rasa"..my mum just ckp,"sabar..tu cabaran kecil je masa mengandung,more to come..and you have to be strong.."
masa tu pulak kitorg baru je get married.i cant even smell org goreng2/menumis..plus,rasa stress sgt tak dpt masakkan makanan utk husband..husband pulak masa tu mcm kurg paham my condition and keep asking kenapa la lama tak masak..but alhamdulillah,dgn pertolongan my MIL,finally my husband faham..i tak blame him pun..kitorg sama2 1st time melaluinye.and starting from there la my husband byk baca psal pregnancy and we shared information together.
for me,setiap org berbeza2 pengalaman masa pregnant.ada yg takde morning sickness lgsg,ade yg smpai kene masuk hospital..mcm2..it's different.and yg plg penting,it is something yg bukan dibuat2 (especially tang tak bole smell certain thing).i tried to overcome it..but i cant.sumore masa tu bulan puasa.me pernah muntah kat bazaar ramadhan sbb bau org goreng ayam goreng berempah.*sigh*
3) Sakit2 badan
This one sndiri cari penyakit.tak minum susu.takat minum susu strawberry mana la nak ok kan :-P but at least me mkn calcium yg doc bg (in tablet) tp of course la khasiat dia diffrent from susu tepung tu. But being a pregnant woman,buat me rasa lebih dkt dgn mak..i exactly bole rasa ape my mum rasa (maybe tak semua,at least sikit2).yelah, zaman skang modern sikit dr dulu.dulu lgsg takde ultrasound2 ni so u cant even see/meet ur lil one like what we do now.
Zaman dulu org bersalin kat rumah je,or paling2 kat hospital gomen.now dgr je hospital gomen,meremang2..takut..sbb slalu kes yg bukan2 msti terjadi kat gomen. i bet bukan kat semua spital gomen mcm tu..maybe certain2 je la (ikut nasib).
My mum cerita,masa dia nak lahirkan zezzatty (heh) die pegi sndiri je hosp cuz abah duduk jauh masa tu..mak kata,abah dh balik a week before tp tak expect la plak me nak kuar the next week kan...tp alhamdulillah,abah managed to see me sejurus dilahirkan..
if myself tatau la kan..skang ni checkup pun seboleh2 nak ada hubby beside me..lg pulak masa deliver nanti :-) tp it's up to him la..kalau dia takut,nak buat mcmana.nnti pengsan dlm labour room susah pulak kan..mcm my dad,die mmg takleh tgk darah...masa angah & adik lahir die tunggu kat luar labour room..time diaorg sunat pon my dad xtgk..huhuhuhu~
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A friend of mine called me this morning.Dia dh ada dlm ward,tunggu masa nak deliver (bole lg ckp2 telefon).Yesterday dh terbuka 1cm and hoping that by today baby dah keluar.
Tapi,selepas semalaman menahan sakit contraction,she told me hanya terbuka 0.5..now me rasa dia tgh berjuang cuz doctor plan nak induce her after lunch td.
i hope everything will be fine..AMIN.
